Damn it, I keep ended up so busy that at the time I plan on blogging, I wind up unable.
So it’s been an interesting two weekends. I’m sort of rekindled an old friendship that was destroyed due to a girl. It’s nice to see it back, and while we had a four man road trip to the Poconos on a complete whim, he finally opened up to us about his break up, as he lost all of his mutual friends with the girl. He lost them all because he wouldn’t tell of the drama, so without any known reasons, they all thought he just looked like a jerk. Learning some of the things that were going on, I almost can’t even believe what he said has happened, but it’s far too detailed and ridiculous for him to have made it up. Unfortunately, this girl, a girl I still care about to an extent, had done things SO horrible that I wouldn’t even dare type them on the internet. That bad.
The girl is still close with my family, and I still care enough to take care of her if she was in trouble, but I can’t even look at her the same really. I wouldn’t even accept her if she had wanted to rekindle me and her suddenly. She seems so caught up in lies as well, I catch it constantly. She would tell me how she’s independent, how she doesn’t need him and he’s the one who’s bothering her and won’t leave her alone, but then I spend time with him and see him happy with his new girlfriend, wanting his ex out of his life, and she’s the one constantly texting him saying “I love you” and trying to surprise him with romantic things. Maybe I should confront her about it to make her feel retarded, but perhaps she’s in a vulnerable enough state already that she doesn’t need a taste of my bluntness on top of it.
Then again, maybe I need to be blunt, because even though I get along with him again now, her obsession is getting in the way of everyone and dragging me into the middle of their drama. I actually had to scold them both on it, because after a second weekend of joking around and going on an adventure, the way only the Four Horsemen could, I shot her a text just to see how she’s been doing, because I had to kidnap him to my other friend’s house so he could avoid her continuously trying to hang out with him. She basically started harassing him once she knew I was home and he still wasn’t, and she began planning something “romantic” for him, or as I like to call it, annoying. I didn’t care but I didn’t want to get into it, I continued playing Civilization.
After a few hours, she says “ok I’m free” because apparently she took “what you been up to” as seeing if she was free to hang out with me? she asked if I wanted to meet somewhere, and I told her I was busy hanging posters so I didn’t know. She decided she wanted to dye her hair, and wanted me to help her pick a color, so without me even answering, I get the “I’m outside” text. Then he starts texting me. She was up his ass, so he told her she needed to stop so he could have fun with himself instead of dealing with her drama. Him telling her that is what sent her to my house without even planning anything with me, and now he’s texting me things like “we can’t let this come between us and it’s going to” He’s the only one letting it get to him I’m not trying anything and I see straight through her to what she’s getting at. She basically was using me to make him jealous after she told him off, just like how last Friday she tried making me think she would stop by at some point so I’d wait at home, and with me at home not hanging out with her obsession, she was free to go there, but we both saw through it and I picked him up leaving her with no one to hang out with.
He begged me while she was over dying her hair to not let her coax me into doing anything with her, because she’s trying to ruin our friendship so she can get back to him. I’m not even doing anything other than watching Top Gear, and it’s becoming annoying to get interrogated and asked if she’s still there and what she’s doing, I told her she needs to stop playing these games that I know she’s trying to do and stop asking me about him or even talking to me about him, and he needs to stop too because his interrogations are just as annoying. I don’t know why I bother keeping friends sometimes, all they do is pull me into their shit I want nothing to do with.
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